What You Should Know About Self-Harm

It can be very frightening to find out that someone you care about is struggling with self-harm. Feelings of helplessness and fear may arise, especially if you are unsure what self-harm is, why it is happening, or how to help your loved one. Knowing the answers to these questions can help you understand your loved one and give them the support that they need. 

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Matt Headland
Let's Talk Boundaries

People around you might believe that you must have relationships with certain people just because you are family, or because you have shared a long history together, but that is not inherently the case. Sometimes boundaries are hard. Sometimes boundaries are painful

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Matt Headland
New Year, Same Me

With the start of a new year many people take it as an opportunity to start over or to recommit to personal goals and dreams.  For some this may be a good motivator and that is great if it works out that way. For others it can feel like a lot of pressure.

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Matt Headland
How to Support Your Anxious Child

Oftentimes, kids don’t quite understand what is going on when anxiety symptoms arise. It is not until the realization that the child is visiting the nurse every day for stomachaches, or a concerned parent calls explaining the struggle of getting their child to school every morning, that it is made clear that the child is experiencing anxiety and needs support.

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Matt Headland
Masking

In the spirit of October, let’s talk about masking. I’m not talking about dressing up and putting on your spookiest Frankenstein’s Monster mask to go trick-or-treating. I’m talking about engaging in inauthentic social behaviors and forgoing helpful/needed accommodations to meet more “socially acceptable” behaviors expected in a neurotypical society.

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Matt Headland
Are Complementary Alternative Methods Right for You?

Complementary alternative methods (CAM) are supportive methods/practices that are used in conjunction with standard medical treatments. Alone, these may not be a “cure” for a given condition, but when used alongside talk therapy, they may improve overall wellbeing and quality of life during treatment and beyond.

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Matt Headland
The Lasting Ache of Loss

At one point or another, we are all going to lose a loved one, whether it be a parent, partner, or friend. Loss is hard, and the subsequent grieving process can be confusing and overwhelming.

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Matt Headland